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Trish Lui's avatar

Love this - thanks so much as always Tammy for sharing your wisdom and practical tools that help to make the world a better place.

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Christianne Ribeiro's avatar

Hi Tammy,

Your posts are fascinating! I wish I had known of them so much earlier in my career.

I've had a few experiences with people raising their voices, however, I would like to have your feedback on one specific situation.

First, let me give you some context about me. I'm Brazilian and married my English boyfriend, so came to live and work in the UK, in IT, over 20 years ago.

In my second job here, I came across an IT Director that, once, he called my manager and I for a chat. He started "yelling" in an open door office, so all others could hear. He was complaining about my "perceived" behaviour in a visit to a supplier. All made up story, but the real point I'm trying to think is on how I would have handled this better, not just being shocked and not saying anything. My manager then, also didn't say a word.

It seemed at the time, the IT Director wanted to get rid of all the women in our small team.

In the end, I left as I couldn't stand what he was doing and what my manager wasn't doing...

Any comments please?

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