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Mental models: The invisible maps that shape our arguments
We disagree better when we understand the ways our mental models help and hinder us during conflict.
Sep 3
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Tammy Lenski
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August 2025
Reframing your message
Words can build bridges or burn them
Aug 27
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Tammy Lenski
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3 ideas and a question: On forgiveness
The impact of forgiveness on us and on them
Aug 20
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Tammy Lenski
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Reflection prompt #17
Considering the nature of our fears of conflict
Aug 13
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Tammy Lenski
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Are you sure you're solving the same problem?
One reason disagreements get messy is that people are on different train tracks and don’t know it.
Aug 6
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Tammy Lenski
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July 2025
How to interrupt politely
Ways to make sure your own contributions get air time
Jul 23
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Tammy Lenski
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3 ideas and a question: Evaluating risk
Two ways we misperceive risk and how to move forward anyway
Jul 16
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Tammy Lenski
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Reflection prompt #16
Unpacking what bugs us
Jul 9
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Tammy Lenski
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How to transform gravity problems in conflict resolution
Gravity problems make conflict resolution difficult. Here’s how to recognize gravity problems when you see them, why they’re troublesome, and how to…
Jul 2
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Tammy Lenski
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June 2025
3 ideas and a question: Conversational rollercoasters
Attempts at connection can inadvertently fuel disconnection instead. Here are three to avoid: Boomerasking, stealing someone's story, and being a…
Jun 18
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Tammy Lenski
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Reflection prompt #15
Why do Recalibration Conversations feel so daunting, and what can we do about it?
Jun 11
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Tammy Lenski
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Recalibration conversations
For conflict in vital relationships, don't overlook the conversation that comes **before** the problem-solving conversation
Jun 4
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Tammy Lenski
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