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Reflection prompt #7
Looking at the ways we prefer to fight at home and work
Oct 16
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Tammy Lenski
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Language for dealing with repetitive storytelling
How to explore and address stories about what happened so that problem-solving can move forward.
Oct 9
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Keep your wits during conflict with these cognitive distancing techniques
Help yourself think clearly, make better decisions, and keep impulses in check with these 11 mental tricks.
Oct 2
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Tammy Lenski
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September 2024
Reflection prompt #6
On shifting the narrative of the conflict stories we tell ourselves and others
Sep 18
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Tammy Lenski
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A question for softening inflexible stances
+ A quick survey for you
Sep 11
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Tammy Lenski
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My favorite ways to gain insight into a conflict
How I form “provisional theories” that can influence the trajectory of a conflict.
Sep 4
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August 2024
Reflection prompt #5
I spoke recently about the quest for common ground, particularly how elusive it can seem when vital working relationships have devolved into bitterness…
Aug 21
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Tammy Lenski
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Language for stopping unwanted advice-giving
How to politely stop people from giving advice you've neither asked for nor want to hear.
Aug 14
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Tammy Lenski
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You're not listening
Do you seem like a bad listener when you disagree? Yes, you do, even when you’re an ace listener. Here's why.
Aug 7
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Tammy Lenski
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9 practical strategies for navigating resistance when people disagree
Conflict is a dance with resistance. To choose our best moves, we need to make sense of their resistance and figure out how to dance with it.
Aug 5
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Tammy Lenski
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July 2024
Reflection prompt #4
Considering the ways early lessons and experiences shape the way we navigate conflict
Jul 17
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Tammy Lenski
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How one word helps us bypass ego and hopelessness
Adding one word to a common question helps us mentally bypass our egos in conflict situations.
Jul 10
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