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3 ideas and a question: Conversational rollercoasters
Attempts at connection can inadvertently fuel disconnection instead. Here are three to avoid: Boomerasking, stealing someone's story, and being a…
Jun 18
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Tammy Lenski
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Reflection prompt #15
Why do Recalibration Conversations feel so daunting, and what can we do about it?
Jun 11
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Tammy Lenski
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Recalibration conversations
For conflict in vital relationships, don't overlook the conversation that comes **before** the problem-solving conversation
Jun 4
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Tammy Lenski
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May 2025
3 ideas and a question: Relationship conflict
A better predictor of successful conflict resolution for couples than how they communicate, and two ways to reframe conflict in relationships.
May 28
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Break free from rowboating
Stop a conflict’s past from holding you fast
May 21
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Tammy Lenski
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Reflection prompt #14
Learn how to mine Stuck Stories for their crucial underlying message.
May 14
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Tammy Lenski
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Discover what you're really fighting about
Our conflict hooks influence the conflicts we get into, how we react, and how stuck we get
May 7
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Tammy Lenski
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April 2025
The conflict pivot podcast interview
Learn more about conflict pivots and conflict hooks in this interview by William Corliss of The Workplace Podcast
Apr 25
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Tammy Lenski
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Effective apologies
Three mistakes to avoid and the two crucial ingredients to include
Apr 23
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3 ideas and a question: Stuck stories
How we become so committed to and soothed by our conflict stories
Apr 16
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Tammy Lenski
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Reflection prompt #13
Let's delve into our Stuck Stories and figure out what they're trying to tell us.
Apr 9
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Unpacking our stuck stories
The story we tell ourselves and others about a conflict isn’t the story of the conflict. It’s our story of the conflict. What is it trying to tell us?
Apr 2
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Tammy Lenski
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